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  • Supportive therapy groups for teenagers with diabetes

    Supportive therapy groups for teenagers with diabetes

    For over 20 years, I have been leading various groups: groups for kids whose parents have divorced, social support groups for kids with Aspergers Disorder, groups for kids who have lost a parent, groups for kids with ADHD and conduct disorders. One of the few...

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  • Parents: Talk to your Kids about Sex!

    Parents: Talk to your Kids about Sex!

    I know that this sounds like an utterly uncontroversial bit of encouragement; surely everyone believes that parents should speak to their children about sex – providing them with information, guidance, and moral direction.  But here I’d like to bring up a somewhat trickier, more challenging...

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  • Psychologists are bringing creative arts therapies into the mainstream

    Psychologists are bringing creative arts therapies into the mainstream

    I encourage yoo to read this wonderful article published on the American Psychological Association’s web site and magazine. Experts: An autistic teenager learns to communicate with other people by playing the drums as part of a group. A family in therapy makes a drawing together,...

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  • Use Your Imagination to Defeat Your Fears

    Use Your Imagination to Defeat Your Fears

    Over the years, I’ve worked with a lot of kids struggling with fears, phobias, and anxieties. Recently, I saw a nine year old boy who was having a lot of trouble getting to sleep because of night-time fears and bad dreams. This boy had one...

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  • How to Say No

    How to Say No

    As you all know, I work with lots of kids with Aspergers Syndrome or High Functioning Autism. This advice applies particularly to these children, but I think it’s probably relevant for many if not most kids. I have had several experiences in which the children...

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  • Balancing the Two Essential Aspects of Parenting

    Balancing the Two Essential Aspects of Parenting

    I believe that there are two essential components of parenting: providing warmth, comfort, nurturance and affection; and providing structure, rules, discipline and a sense of responsibility and accountability. The necessity of both components – and a reasonable balance between the two – is certainly not...

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