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		<title>Helping Kids Deal with Grief through Digital Storytelling</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 05:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ginger</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p> </p> <p><a href="http://www.drmendel.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/griefgirl.jpg"></a>Kids document their story from  before, during and after a loss to understand, express and grieve. They do this by creating videos that include photos, mementos, original art, voiceovers and favorite music. They will use the seven step digital storytelling process to create an unforgettable documentary.</p> <p>Participants will need their own laptop [...]]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://www.drmendel.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/griefgirl.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-333" src="http://www.drmendel.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/griefgirl.jpg" alt="Teens and Grief" width="225" height="150" /></a>Kids document their story from  before, during and after a loss to understand, express and grieve. They do this by creating videos that include photos, mementos, original art, voiceovers and favorite music. They will use the seven step digital storytelling process to create an unforgettable documentary.</p>
<p><em><strong>Participants will need their own laptop and digital camera at each session.</strong></em></p>
<p>Group Leader: <a href="http://www.drmendel.com/about/ginger.html">Ginger Poole</a>, LPCA, Art Therapist</p>
<p>Mendel Psychological Associates</p>
<p>Grades 7-8  -  Three Mondays (6:00-7:30PM)Aug. 16<sup>th</sup>, Aug. 23, Aug. 30</p>
<p>Grades 9-12  &#8211; Three Thursdays (6:00-7:30PM) Aug. 19th, Aug. 26th, Sept 2,</p>
<p>Call Ginger Poole at 919-876-1314 or email gingerpoole@drmendel.com</p>
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		<title>Support for Parents of Depressed Teens</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 03:03:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.drmendel.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/depression.jpg"></a>Join other parents for this one time session to share experiences, offer hope and express yourself through an easy art exercise. No talent is needed and you don&#8217;t have to be able to draw. Come and let yourself receive support and encouragement during this difficult time.</p> Sunday, August 22, 2 PM-3:30PM <p> Mendel Psychological [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.drmendel.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/depression.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-296" src="http://www.drmendel.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/depression.jpg" alt="Support for Parents of Depressed Teens" width="228" height="152" /></a>Join other parents for this one time session to share experiences, offer hope and express yourself through an easy art exercise. No talent is needed and you don&#8217;t have to be able to draw. Come and let yourself receive support and encouragement during this difficult time.</p>
<h2><em>Sunday, August 22, 2 PM-3:30PM</em></h2>
<p><em> </em>Mendel Psychological Associates, 1.5 hours, $35</p>
<p>Leader: <a title="Ginger Poole" href="http://www.drmendel.com/about/ginger.html" target="_self">Ginger Poole</a>, LPCA,  Art Therapist</p>
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<p><em><strong>Call Ginger Poole at 919-876-1314 to register<br />
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		<title>Parents of Teens Support Group</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 02:42:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>This 1.5 hour session centers around sharing with other parents the positive and challe<a href="http://www.drmendel.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/collage.jpg"></a>nging things that you deal with on a day to day basis while parenting a teen. You&#8217;ll find support in the midst of the group and have a safe place to share.</p> <p>During the session we will as a group do [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This 1.5 hour session centers around sharing with other parents the positive and challe<a href="http://www.drmendel.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/collage.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-227" src="http://www.drmendel.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/collage.jpg" alt="Parents of Teens Support Group at Mendel Psychological Associates" width="215" height="195" /></a>nging things that you deal with on a day to day basis while parenting a teen. You&#8217;ll find support in the midst of the group and have a safe place to share.</p>
<p>During the session we will as a group do one activity that will consist of choosing photographs to make a collage. This is a &#8220;no talent&#8221; exercise and will not be judged on aesthetic quality but will be used to learn about yourself and explore your relationship with your teenager. Many people find in this exercise an enlightening, easy and fun way to get insight without having to do a lot of talking.</p>
<p>Come and join us  on Saturday, August 14th  for a short time of rest and a time to spend allowing others to support you.</p>
<h2>Saturday August 21st 2:00 PM &#8211; 3:30 PM</h2>
<p>Mendel Psychological Associates (<a href="http://www.drmendel.com/contact/contact.html" target="_self">Directions</a>) $35</p>
<p><em><strong>Register by calling <a href="http://www.drmendel.com/about/ginger.html">Ginger Poole</a></strong><strong> at 919-876-1314 or email gingerpoole@drmendel.com</strong></em></p>
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		<title>Coping with Divorce and Separation in a digital world</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Jun 2010 18:03:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ginger</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>As an art therapist, I see kids use their digital skills and talents to work through feelings of discouragement and grief they experience due to their parent’s separation or divorce. Using the computer, digital camera, video camera and iPad, they choose and create images to express feelings that have long been unsaid. By making music [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_200" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://www.drmendel.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/momanddadwithransom.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-200" src="http://www.drmendel.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/momanddadwithransom-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Created on the iPad</p></div>
<p>As an art therapist, I see kids use their digital skills and talents to work through feelings of discouragement and grief they experience due to their parent’s separation or divorce. Using the computer, digital camera, video camera and iPad, they choose and create images to express feelings that have long been unsaid. By making music videos and painting alien space creatures, they tell their story and in the telling begin to find relief.<br />
I see kids who have shut down or are acting out in anger. It’s important to listen, but what if they don’t talk? Many kids use their MySpace and Facebook pages to express feelings and send messages. Chances are your kids are leaving clues for both of you on their social networking page through their words and their pictures. Don’t miss that opportunity to hear.</p>
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		<title>Frequently Asked Questions about Digital Art Therapy &#8211; FOR PARENTS</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Jan 2010 19:22:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ginger</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>What is Digital Art Therapy?<br /> Digital Art Therapy is a type of psychotherapy that encourages expression of emotions and changes in thinking through artistic activities such as creating photomontages, digital paintings, photographs, and videos with music. It is based on the evidence that the creative process involved in the making of art is healing [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>What is Digital Art Therapy?<br />
</strong>Digital Art Therapy is a type of psychotherapy that encourages expression of emotions and changes in thinking through artistic activities such as creating photomontages, digital paintings, photographs, and videos with music. It is based on the evidence that the creative process involved in the making of art is healing and life-enhancing.</p>
<p><strong>What kind of issues can digital art therapy help my adolescent with?<br />
</strong>Adolescents dealing with issues such as depression, anxiety, grief and loss, stress, ADHD, adoption and foster care issues, anger, high functioning autism and Aspergers among others benefit from digital art therapy</p>
<p><strong>Does my teen need to be an artist?</strong><br />
No art talent is needed. Most everyone interacts with digital photos, cameras and art to the degree we work with in digital art therapy. The goal is self-expression, not great art.</p>
<p><strong>Does my teen need to be a computer expert?<br />
</strong>Only average computer skills are necessary. If your teen can use a mouse and a keyboard, they can do digital art therapy. There is software for all skill levels.</p>
<p><strong>Does my teen need to bring his own laptop?</strong><br />
Laptops are provided (PC or Mac) but if your teen has a favorite software package he already uses he is welcome to bring his laptop with that loaded.</p>
<p><strong>How often will I meet with you?</strong><br />
I will meet with you for the first session without your teen. Then I would like to see them individually for three sessions. I will meet with you again after the third session with your teen to determine goals and a plan for success.</p>
<p><strong>How much does it cost?<br />
</strong>My fees are listed in the <a href="http://www.drmendel.com/documents/ServicesAgreement.pdf">Service Agreement</a>,  under “master level therapist fees.”</p>
<p><strong>Does insurance pay for this?</strong><br />
I am not on any insurance panels but some insurance may provide out-of-network benefits for my counseling services.</p>
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		<title>Frequently Asked Questions about Digital Art Therapy FOR TEENS</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Jan 2010 19:19:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>What is Digital Art Therapy?<br /> Digital Art Therapy is a type of psychotherapy that encourages expression of emotions and changes in thinking through artistic activities such as creating photomontages, digital paintings, photographs, and videos with music. It is based on the evidence that the creative process involved in the making of art is healing [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-171" src="http://www.drmendel.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/IMG_0005-300x300.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="300" />What is Digital Art Therapy?<br />
</strong>Digital Art Therapy is a type of psychotherapy that encourages expression of emotions and changes in thinking through artistic activities such as creating photomontages, digital paintings, photographs, and videos with music. It is based on the evidence that the creative process involved in the making of art is healing and life-enhancing.</p>
<p><strong>Can I use my own laptop?<br />
</strong>Yes, I have a fast PC or Mac for you to use but if you are more comfortable with your own system and your own software, please bring it.</p>
<p><strong>Can I use my own photos?<br />
</strong>Yes! Bring your photos on your camera, DVD or flash drive. I love to see you use your own images. I also have plenty of stock photography if you don’t have anything of your own you want to use at first.</p>
<p><strong>Can I listen to music while I make art?<br />
</strong>Lots of people listen to music while making art. Some exercises require talking but most don’t. My only request is that I get to listen too.  I have a multiplug iPod port so bring something good!</p>
<p><strong>What software will I use? How good do I have to be ?</strong><br />
Only average computer skills are necessary. If you can use a mouse and a keyboard, you can do digital art therapy. There is software for all skill levels. We use the Adobe products but there’s also Art Rage, Painter and free products like GIMP and SketchUp. If you have a request, let me know ahead of time and I’ll see if I can get it.</p>
<p><strong>Do I need to be an artist?<br />
</strong>No art talent is needed. Most everyone interacts with digital photos, cameras and art to the degree we work with in digital art therapy. The goal is self-expression, not great art.</p>
<p><strong>Do my parents hear what I talk about or see my art?<br />
</strong>Your parents are allowed to see your art and be privy to our conversations however, I make a deal with them that they will let us have our privacy before we start except in extreme situations. I feel it’s important for artwork and conversations to be private.</p>
<p><strong>Can I post my art on Facebook or DeviantArt?<br />
</strong>It’s so important that the art be private that I expect the artwork to stay on the drives in my office and not be posted anywhere public. It’s tempting to create something you want to share only to have it commented on inappropriately by someone who doesn’t get it. For this reason, all digital artwork stays in your file and is private between you and me.</p>
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		<title>How my son taught me to shut up and appreciate the ocean</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Apr 2009 04:34:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Mendel</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>My two year old son was so excited that we were going to the ocean that he couldn&#8217;t sleep the night before.  &#8220;Idemo na more!&#8221; (Serbian for &#8220;We&#8217;re going to the beach,&#8221;) he kept calling out from his bed.</p> <p>When we got there, he took me by the hand and pulled me to take him [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My two year old son was so excited that we were going to the ocean that he couldn&#8217;t sleep the night before.  &#8220;Idemo na more!&#8221; (Serbian for &#8220;We&#8217;re going to the beach,&#8221;) he kept calling out from his bed.</p>
<p>When we got there, he took me by the hand and pulled me to take him to the ocean.  We got to a gate and he called out &#8220;Abre,&#8221; which, as he has learned from Go Diego Go, causes gates to open.  Once through, he ran as fast as his little legs could carry him toward the ocean.</p>
<p>And then we were on the beach.  I asked him if he wanted to walk or to sit and he said he wanted to walk.  But once we&#8217;d gone over the last little drop-off and were near the water, he sat down.  I sat down next to him and he slid over close to me, snuggled up against me.  I put my arm around him and started asking him if he liked just looking out over the water and listening to the waves crash.  Then, I realized, &#8220;what in the world am I doing?&#8221; I&#8217;m trying to teach this perfect being to appreciate something that he already appreciates with a mindfulness, a fullness, a calm, a peace, a quiet, and a tranquillity to which I can only aspire.</p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center"><img class="size-medium wp-image-105 aligncenter" title="Father and son " src="http://www.drmendel.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/dsc_0610-300x199.jpg" alt="Father and son " width="613" height="420" /></p>
<blockquote><p>So I stopped talking.  And we sat there in silence for about 10 minutes, looking out over the ocean and listening to the waves crash.</p></blockquote>
<p>My son is rarely quiet, rarely not in motion.  But for this, to drink in the transcendent beauty of the ocean, both he and I sat in quiet wonderment.</p>
<p>Finally, as if to signal that the time for sitting had come to an end, my son said &#8220;the waves crash,&#8221; stood up and said &#8221;swimming water&#8221; (the pool) and started his walk back.</p>
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		<title>Welcome Kristin Vitko</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Dec 2008 21:48:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Mendel</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal">I’m really excited to announce that <a title="Kristin Vitko" href="http://drmendel.com/about_me/Kristin.html" target="_self">Kristin Vitko</a> is joining my practice.  I’m very impressed with Kristin, including her professional experience, her interpersonal abilities, and her therapeutic approach and areas of expertise.  I believe she’ll be a tremendous addition to my practice and that she and I will work together [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; color: #1f497d;">I’m really excited to announce that <a title="Kristin Vitko" href="http://drmendel.com/about_me/Kristin.html" target="_self">Kristin Vitko</a> is joining my practice.  I’m very impressed with Kristin, including her professional experience, her interpersonal abilities, and her therapeutic approach and areas of expertise.  I believe she’ll be a tremendous addition to my practice and that she and I will work together in a very complementary manner.  I think she will also be a valuable addition to the therapeutic community in the Triangle area. </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; color: #1f497d;">I hope that you will all consider her when you are looking for appropriate referrals for your clientele, particularly in her areas of expertise outlined below:</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; color: #1f497d;"> </span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: &quot;Cambria&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; color: #4f81bd;">Kristin Vitko is a Licensed Professional Counselor specializing in Expressive Arts Therapy with children, adolescents, and families.  Kristin is talented and passionate about creating opportunities for clients to cultivate their unique selves and increase their quality of life. </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: &quot;Cambria&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; color: #4f81bd;"> She integrates directive and nondirective play therapy techniques for children ages two through twelve, focusing on issues of attachment, adoption, developmental delays, issues related to autistic spectrum disorders, anger and anxiety management, and many other emotional and behavioral patterns. </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: &quot;Cambria&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; color: #4f81bd;"> Using expressive arts techniques, including visual art, drama, and journaling, Kristin works with adolescents to support identity development, build social skills, develop mood management strategies, and strengthen family relationships.  In addition to her individual work, Kristin also facilitates expressive arts groups for children and adolescents allowing clients to work with peers in order to practice social skills, develop creative thinking, and cultivate positive self-regard.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: &quot;Cambria&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; color: #4f81bd;"> Kristin believes in working with the whole family and encourages parent and sibling involvement in family therapy.  She considers it an essential goal for parents to expand their parenting skills and strengthen co-parenting collaboration.  Meeting with parents and siblings in addition to individual work with one family member allows the whole family to grow together. </span></p>
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		<title>Take this pill and your problems will go away</title>
		<link>http://www.drmendel.com/blog/2008/11/06/ill-take-a-pill-and-hope-my-problems-will-go-away/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Nov 2008 20:19:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Mendel</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p style="margin: 0in; font-family: Calibri; font-size: 11pt;">Even though psychotherapy is beneficial to treating depression in adolescents, more than half of the children that are taking antidepressants do not receive psychotherapy, according to <a href="http://clinician.thomsonhealthcare.com/Articles/view/?id=1851" target="_blank">Thomson Reuters</a> research published on October 2008. For your reference, I am attaching the full report <a href="http://www.drmendel.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/adolescentsdepression1.pdf">here</a>.</p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="margin: 0in; font-family: Calibri; font-size: 11pt;">Even though psychotherapy is beneficial to treating depression in adolescents, more than half of the children that are taking antidepressants do not receive psychotherapy, according to <a href="http://clinician.thomsonhealthcare.com/Articles/view/?id=1851" target="_blank">Thomson Reuters</a> research published on October 2008. For your reference, I am attaching the full report <a href="http://www.drmendel.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/adolescentsdepression1.pdf">here</a>.</p>
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		<title>Vacation</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Aug 2008 02:57:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Mendel</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Day after tomorrow, I leave for three weeks vacation. My wife, my young son &#38; I are heading to Serbia, my wife&#8217;s homeland. This got me thinking about the psychological costs and benefits of vacation. For me, like for a lot of psychologists, taking a fairly lengthy vacation inevitably elicits some guilt: &#8220;Can I really [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Day after tomorrow, I leave for three weeks vacation.  My wife, my young son &amp; I are heading to Serbia, my wife&#8217;s homeland.  This got me thinking about the psychological costs and benefits of vacation.  For me, like for a lot of psychologists, taking a fairly lengthy vacation inevitably elicits some guilt: &#8220;Can I really leave my clients for that long? Will the kids I work with be ok?&#8221;  Well, the answer is yes: it is ok to leave one&#8217;s clients for that long; they will be ok.  And beyond that – while this may be a cliché – you have to take care of yourself before you can take care of others.  Vacation. Travel. Time with my family.  These to me are essential sustenance.  They are enormous parts of what makes me who I am.  Two years ago, I faced the decision of how much time to take off of work to be with my wife and my newborn son.  I am filled with joy and pride that I chose to take seven weeks off to be with them.  It was a decision I will never regret.  I often joke that one of the great perks of being a psychologist in private practice is unlimited vacation time.  Well, it&#8217;s unlimited <em>unpaid</em> vacation time but still…</p>
<p>So how does this apply to those of you reading this blog, those of you who are not psychologists?  Well, next time you are faced with the choice of a vacation or working on that vital project, or building your resume, or doing yet more overtime, choose the vacation.  It may not directly further your career, but it will strengthen your soul and lengthen your life.  That&#8217;s this psychologist&#8217;s advice.</p>
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